Monday, April 04, 2005

Heartless - i cant live without u

I am not sure if I shld write this entry now, for v often, i am unwilling to express what i wish to say in words, without sounding too exaggerating or 'packaged'. I admire littlecow on her ability to express her feelings very well in her blog.

A friend was asking me how heartless ppl can get. Yes, i agree that human beings can sometimes be so heartless, often leaving the receiving party in extreme pain and agony. How can a person's heart change so extremely within a short period of time?How can a person let go so easily of the good times that he used to share with his love one? How can his words and promises be so fragile and weak?

A fren has already crossed the 2nd yr of his r/s with his present gf. However, he still feels the pain and constantly lives in the shadows of his previous r/s. Another fren broke up with her bf of 2yrs without feeling much pain, but her recently ended r/s of 2 months left her in deep agony.

Love between 2 person shld ONLY be the partial union of their lives, and not a total overlap of each other's lives. When one party puts his/her life entirely into the other party's life, it leads to the situation of : I cant live without you.

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