Dun listen too much to others

I ve learnt my lesson today that i shldnt listen too much to others. Some supposedly kind advices ended me up in disaster. I was supposed to 'educate' my parents on some financial issues but ended up having a big quarrel with my mum. Trust me, I have already used the softest approach, but somehow, every family differs, and I cannot compare my own family with my frens. The situations faced by every family is really different, and shld not be generalised. Not everyone is jus as fortunate, and we cannot truely understand others unless we put ourselves in their shoes. I can only blame myself for listening too much to others, the lack of wisdom.

Similarly to my 'new found' job, i ve received feedbacks from a fren who is now working in HP that life is v tough over there. He has advised openly in his blog against joining of HP, unless 'you think u r as strong as a bull' & do not mind the 'inbalance in pay and work load' bla bla bla.... I admit i was saddened and disappointed by his words, but on a positive note, i think ppl tend to vent their frustrations most over their blogs. Whatever the case, ehi passiko, no job is an easy job. I ve actually kinda expected a tougher job, and tats precisely why i chose to quit my prev job. A survey (duno if accurate) shows that majority of the singaporean guys feel happier if their work is tougher & req them to do OT. Talk abt ego & MCP.....

And yes, from the above pics, once again i visited Kranji reservoir, alone. In fact, i m the only soul along the entire stretch of bank. I felt as if i have the entire world to myself..woohooo..... Probably becos there was less ppl today, birds could be seen flocking around. The sounds of waves gently tapping the stones + the chirpings of birds + occasional breeze + hiding beneath the big shady trees under the BIG HOT SUN ... i felt i was in paradise. Its total relaxation.

But still, reality has to be faced. I feel sucky now, and the kranji andidote doesn seem to last long enough to keep myself spirited. Dun ask me why, but i jus feel sucky x 100 tonite.