Haha! I was so reluctant to write an entry this evening, all because I was too attached to the pictures i have posted in my previous post, and wanted them to remain 'on top' of my blog page. Seek a temporary soln by posting more pics of kranji in this entry. The attachments will go away somehow later..
Quite coincidentally, I have been revolving the same topic with some BS friends but on separate occasions and diff ppl. And trust me, I wasnt the one who initiated the topic, but probably, it has become quite apparent tat they noticed it themselves.
Becos I know where I stand in terms of my cultivation level and buddhist knowledge, i seldom openly 'share' my knowledge with others for this obvious reason. But another reason is because i am paranoid of the 'Dharma diarrhoea' symptom. I find that too much theories errode away the true esscence of buddhism. A lot of things need not be said, but of cos i do welcome the true and sincere sharings by some buddhist friends (eg Kalden, ae2004 and other bloggers).
The ability to share the Dharma is definitely a meritorious deed, provided its done with a good intention. But if its meant for showing off, gaining authority or even greed (to obtain something or impress someone), then i guess it must be a damm terrible thing to do so. However, how often is our intention 100% pure? I beckon most of the time they comprise a mix of pure and impure elements.
A couple of friends are still troubled with their love affair. I feel that falling out of love is like getting sick or wounded. It takes time to heal.. so give yourselves more time to heal, before you wanna rush into another r/s again. Things may seem so nice, so perfect, so true and so splendid, but never rush into love, just because u feel pressurized or tempted to do so. Mabbe its good to ask oursleves : Am i ready for the next love? Or am i just temporary blinded?
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