This is my colleague's baby son. He is about 5 months old and he really look like his father, haha. Almost every other of my colleague has an infant less than 1 yr old at home.

28th dec is my ex-gf 's bday. I was contemplating whether to sms her bday wishes on 27th night but decided to do it the next day. Unfortunately, I forgot abt it and only managed to do so only jus now which was 29th Dec. She replied saying that I was one day late, and hence, giving her the excuse to send me late bday wishes in the future. I suanned her back by saying that late is better than her not sending me any bday wishes at all. "Who says i nv send u bday sms? I was one day late also, u ah, how can u forget!" I was damm paiseh cos i forgot she did send me a bday wish sms, haha.

A few friends are now in the stage of getting themselves out from broken r/s. A guy friend is definitely not taking it well and is still harbouring thoughts of winning the gal back, despite having broken off for more than a yr. In fact in my opinon, he has become worse lately. On the other hand, another gal friend seems to be taking things very well despite the fact that she only break up 2 weeks ago. Although she is still very sad and have sleepless nights, she can actually tell me a lot of her reflections and thoughts on her r/s which really impress me. I get to learn a lot from my conversation with her.

I realise most enstranged couples tend to point finger at each other as they dig up all the old and ugly pasts. Whereas this friend of mine is working on how to forgive the other party and forgiving herself. I am really so proud of her. I believe everything takes time. Letting go is difficult and thats actually abt all of wat we are learning in buddhism.