Feeling touched

I may not be anti-bgr, but friends who are close to me know that i am usually not very supportive of bgr. Many a times, i have friends sharing with me their bgr problems. I walked with them and could see the amt of sorrows and anguish they have to go through. I witnessed how miserable they are when the r/s turned sour. Nevertheless, i am usually unmoved and untouched.

Today, this guy really touched me - for his love for his lost gf. The ironic fact is that a few of us have been trying to talk him out of trying to reconcile with his ex gf. We feel that the r/s is impossible, and they should stop wasting each other's time. Moreover, the ex-gf has recently found himself a bf, and she is really much more happier and cheerful - just like how she was before she was attached to him. The 2 of them were just now meant for each other, despite the amt of effort and sacrifices both parties have made.

As an egocentric person, this friend has nv bothered to lower his head and admit his own mistakes. However, he told me today that he realised how wrong he has been in the r/s, how bad he has treated his ex-gf, and how much he has missed her. He used to despise her in several aspects and even looked down on her. Now, she felt she has lost the best gf he could ever get, despite spending the past couple of yrs after their break up in search of new gals.

Is everything too late? I duno actually.

I suggested 2 options for him - either he woos her back and treats her very nice, or he let go and move on with life. He chose the former. I was really at lost whether to support him or not. Will i help to raise false hopes in him if i were to give him my support? What if the gal rejects him? Will he be more sad and disappointed? And so wat if they managed to patch up? Will i be helping them to dig a deeper pit? Will it bring more miseries to the gal if history were to repeat?

But as friends, i believe in supporting one another. I am giving him my support. I wish him all the best.