I have promised refreshed.pearl that I will write something in my blog last evening but I came home too late. I spent my last evening skating followed by jogging at ECP with the EVC friends. This afternoon I will be heading for the BS-gang chalet and thus, I guess I wudnt get a chance to blog today either. So I am doing it now at my workplace, kakaka.

Last month we had a mini BS gathering at CK's house and we da-bao dinner from a nearby coffeeshop tze-char stall. Ck was telling us that ever since he shifted in 10yrs ago, he has seen multiple changes in the ownership of this stall. We were wondering why wud there be ppl still willing to take over the stall each time the prev owner failed. Were they thinking that 'this time' it will be different and they will outshine all the predecessor?

This reminds me of something else, though not exactly a relevant comparison but interesting to ponder abt. Recently a pair of BS couple friends told me they have broken up. Yesterday, another pair told me their r/s is now at the rocks. Both pairs were v loving couples, but problems surfaced eventually and I thought these problems were quite typical in a r/s. The gal feels that the guy is not showing enough attention to her, while the guy feels strained and tired over her demads. No more butterflies in the stomach, no more magical moments - the chemistry is lost.

Recently I get to know a lady friend who has separated from her estranged husband and filing a divorce soon. She has been terribly hurt by her past r/s, but is now in love with another guy. Unfortunately, this new guy has failed to meet up to her expectations in certain aspects and she was hurt once again. This reminds me of the coffeeshop stall near CK's house. Why do ppl still wanna engage in something knowing that the end product will be sufferings eventually? Life after life we have been repeating the same thing and given the same sufferings. Perhaps they are thinking that their r/s will be an 'exceptional' and outstanding one, different from the past ones and better than the rest?

Sorry if I have offended anyone… cos wat I say may not be definitely right. But tats how I feel…