Thursday, December 01, 2005

Jimbean was asking me whats the definition of 'meterosexual'. I am sorry I do not have the standard definition to provide, and moreover, this is a relatively 'new' word which only came out probably a decade ago. However, its definitely not equivalent to 'homosexual', so dun worry, haha.

Generally, I think meterosexual refers to a guy/man who is very particular with his outlooks, and would spend time shopping for nice clothings, visiting hair saloons and groom himself nicely. However, my friend further extended her definition to include the 'character' of a guy. She feels that a meterosexual guy is one who is sensitive, caring, 'have-feelings', something very much like the more commonly used term - SNAG. Anyway, its not my personal goal to be a meterosexual or SNAG, haha.

But talking abt sensitivity, I did manage to sense something correctly abt my friends recently. At EVC, I correctly sensed that this guy is interested in this gal, although in front of everyone they have always declared as ' good friends'. In fact, i think most ppl wud have thought the gal is interested in the guy, and not the other way. Somehow, the gal was bewildered how i managed to guess it correctly, as she shared with me her difficulties abt not able to convince the guy she is not ready for him.

Next, its abt a new-born couple in NUSBS (hahaha). These 2 youngsters are really new to NUSBS. In fact, I hardly know them, but a few encounters with them during DC and BS activities gave me the feeling that there s something between them. And hey presto! It was jus a passing remark tat i made today to the guy, and he admitted to me that they have just been in love for 1 mth plus, hahaha.

I guess when u keep urself free from all these love webs and hassles, you become more sharp and observant in the things around you. Rubbish theory i have gotten here, but well.... At times, i still find myself quite vulnerable to fall into traps, but fortunately most of the time the surrounding conditions are either not complete or non favourable, and i am spared from further ordeals. Shld put in more effort to train my mind power.

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