Occasionally, I will give some thoughts to my social life. As I do not have a gf, by right my friends should take up a large part of my life. I sometimes ponder if i am considered the sociable kind who have a lot of friends, or am i more towards the loner type who have only a small circle of friends?

A yr2 hostel mate suddenly icqed me today out of the blue, and jioed me to join SDU activities with him. I know this friend very well, having to stay with him for 1 full yr in PGP. He is a good looking chap, come from a rich family but has a pretty weird character. His fave quotes are " I dun care", as he loves to do things the way he likes, and claims he doesn care abt how others feel. And i guess this has greatly affected his social life, esp after graduation and coming out to work.

Frankly speaking, I am not interested in the activities by SDU. He asked me to propose what i wanna do then. Well, I think i wud rather spend a hot weekend afternoon washing my car in a quiet carpark under a big shady tree, or spend my time driving to some secluded and untouched natural places in singapore for a good relaxation. I feel that we do not need to have v GOOD reasons on why we wanna engage in certain activities, as long as we feel good, relaxed and peaceful doing them.

"What? Driving all the way to NTU/NUS to wash your van? siao!" - haha, tats the reactions from most ppl when i told them abt it. Well, to you it may be siao, but to me, i know i enjoy doing it. It brings me joy and happiness.

With rgd to social life, i think its really not a BIG problem to find friends in singapore. Recently, I have joined the eurovanclub and i found out there s actually a v strong fellowship among the members. For instance, they have a 'dog-swim' activity at Sentosa today. Its really up to you, how much you wanna open up to others.

Argh, feeling very stucked in my blog writing today, duno why. Pardon me for my improper sentence structures, i jus cant write smoothly this evening.