Tuesday, December 21, 2004

BGR, pls....

This evening, I fetch Sohan at PGP and sent him to the airport. I think Sohan is a wonderful friend and I feel very happy providing such a service for him. Will see him back from Sri Lanka abt 2.5 weeks later.

Today, I received 5 emails from my clique of 9 friends. They have specially left out the emails of the couple who just broke off. In their emails, they were expressing and exchanging their concerns on the 'gal', whom they thought was taking things very badly. Some of these friends were getting very worried and frantic on how we should go abt consoling and helping the gal who behaved v differently tat evening.

However, sharing the same sentiments as another gal, we thought we should just leave the gal alone. She may have appeared to be very stone, quiet and down during our x'mas party, but that doesn mean we NEED to do anything on her now. I felt that sometimes we just need to leave ppl alone, let her temporarily shut herself from the world, and perhaps chill it out at home.

While my other friends were worried that she may get into depression or run herself with wild imaginations, I thought we were just very selfish ppl who wanted her to behave the way we wish to see her to be. Afterall, we cant expect her to behave like her old usual self when she just broke up right? Its hard to tell my friends my idea, as I really dun wish to complicate matters.

I have expressed my stand to my friends that we shld leave her alone, and check her out probably a week later. I really believe in karma (or retribution in layman terms). How you treat others in the past will be how others will treat u in the future. Its especially true when it comes to relationship.


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