Lately, I have been writing many superficial stuffs on my blog, becos i wanna avoid writing stuffs which require the exercising of my judgement on others. My friend has chided me for being too judgemental, which i agree totally.

However lately, there have been some pretty disturbing cases among my friends.

First, there is this gal friend of mine who is getting rather troubled with several guys chasing her at the same time. And the unfortunate fact is that all these guys happened to be my personal friends. All of us are well connected via the MSN. I have to limit my conversation and be extremely careful when talking to anyone of them. I do not wish to influence anything. But sometimes its kinda unavoidable when they tend to msg u for more info. To be frank, I am not supportive to any of the guys, for i see what the gal needs most now is to have a good break.

Second, I have this old friend who has been msging me lately on his love troubles with this lady. And this lady is not our age, not someone much younger, but someone much older. She is already in her 50s, and my friend is my age. Initially, I thought he was only joking with me so i didnt give a damm to his msg. But not until recently, after seeing how affected he is then i realise he is actually getting very serious.

Few yrs ago, I have another classmate calling me in the middle of the night when i was sleeping in PGP, telling me abt his love problem with his gf. His gf was 13 yrs his snr, and their age gap has been a great hurdle for the 2 of them. They have since broken up though and both are coping fine now. As for my friend as mentioned earlier, I really duno how i can help him as a friend. I am speechless when he called me. I dun even know how to reply his sms, and i am meeting him tmr for a dinner.

I do not really blame (who am i to blame) my friends for their 'stupidity' and foolishness. I think to love is a rather natural process. And sometimes, I could see how loose my grip has become, as I unknowingly got tempted to wanna be in love again. But the idea of expectations + attachments often turn me off almost immediately, in battle with my cravings and ignorance.