Saturday, January 20, 2007

Cancer




When i was younger, I used to read 8-days a lot. In every issue, there will be a page on horoscope with the weekly predictions for each and every of the 12 signs. However, I never really believe in them and passed them off as superstitions.

As i grow older, I gradually realise people who are born around the same time tend to exhibit very similar behaviour and characters. I always know cancerians are associated with being "sensitive, caring and emotional", but its not until lately that i began to have an increasing interest on the horoscopes.

Weekly predictions aside (i still do not believe in them), i feel that the general descriptions for each of the horoscopes and its traits are very accurate. For instance, Aries and Aquarius are said to love freedom a lot, while Cancer and Taurus are home-lovers. To me, this is not superstitions but in fact, quite in sync with my very limited knowledge on buddhism - why we are born in certain families or particular months of the year.

To my pleasant surprise, there also exists this compaitibility matrix, stating which and which star signs make the best friends/lovers/business partners, and while which other star sign combinations give you disastrous unions. That precisely explains why sometimes, some of your good friends need not necc mix well with your other close friends.

As a crab myself, i couldnt agree more on whats said about a cancer - a crab is an animal with a very strong and tough external shell +very sharp claws that can bite, but yet very soft in the middle. He is a soft-hearted creature, and love to hide inside his shell and enjoy the darkness when hurt or attack.

While i understand the fact that we shouldnt be too absorbed by whats 'predicted' or described here, i feel its actually a great channel for me to find out more about myself, my strengths and weaknesses, and where am i positioned amongst others (other star signs). A sentence which struck me most is "You should bear in mind that others are often not as sensitive as you". Having comprehen this, I ought to feel less disappointed and upset with others when they fail to meet up to my expectations.

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