Eurovan Mega Photo Shoot 2005

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Volkswagon, Peugeot, Citroen, Renault, Fiat, Opel lining up at Marina Carpark for the Eurovanclub Mega Photoshoot.

Christmas

This is a rather back-dated picture which was taken last wednesday. The BS gamer2001 had a dinner gathering and the attendance was very good with a strength of 10 (out of 17 gamers). We has so much catch-ups to do that we found tat the wednesday evening was not enough for us. We are planning for a 2nd gathering this coming week at Mt Faber.

Similarly, we had a gift exchange session. I was running out of idea wat to buy and decided to modify an idea used by one of my BS FOC2000 kakis. I got a v nice crystal picture frame but instead of using it to frame our grp photo, I frame it up with our BS FOC2001 publicity posters. Afterall, it is FOC2001 that has brought us together and gave us this wonderful friendship for the past 4 years.

In fact, I am wondering if there are any other similar BS gangs or kakis like mine (BS FOC2000 and FOC2001-gamers) that still meet up & hang out together after all these yrs. I do know tat there r some v close friends among the alumni who meet up quite often, but i dun think there are any similar cliques/close grps formed up by my juniors. Perhaps there r but i duno their existence.













The photo frame and the 2 posters combined together.

So what did i do for Christmas Eve & Countdown?

Well, I decided to give up my work and drove down to AMK workshop to celebrate the Christmas eve evening with my EVC friends. We had a BBQ followed by yet another session of gift exchange. The advantages of having a BBQ at the car workshop are as follows:

1) No need to scare dirty the place as we r using a car workshop, not someone's kitchen.

2) Can blast the music aloud without disturbing others (cos nobody stays in an industrial park)

3) Can blast music directly from one of the vans which have a v powerful sound sys installed

4) V big and spacious and can do open air bbq

I feel i have gained a lot in yr 2005. But it has not ended yet, shall leave it to a later entry .

Christmas Waste

Its saturday morning! Its Christmas Eve! And i am now in my office/lab working! Hohoho....

Frankly speaking, I duno why I am still feeling so relaxed and light. My pilot run has failed and production is waiting for me to build the units. A v impt customer's order is waiting to be fufiled by 1st jan. Lalalalala... and i am stuck here duno what to do. Everyone has gone home. Nobody will be around next week as well due to company shut down. I am helpless, but still, i am feeling so relaxed. I wonder why.....

Fortunately I have no plan for this 10 day break. I foresee myself going to ECP for skating from one end to the other in a lazy weekday afternoon. I also foresee myself bringing my mum to some temples. I also plan to meet up with my fellow vanners, open up our boots and talk everything under the sun. I also plan to visit the reservoirs again, the nature reserves and parks. But all these will not happen if my pilot unit still fail....awww

Why is it always like that?

When i was in the last week of my BMT, i had a splendid plan with my platoon mate on what we were going to do during the 1 week block leave after our passing out parade. We planned to cycle all the way to under sheares bridge (tats when BEFORE the esplanade was built and the place was still looking very natural and untouched) to have a good long nap and rest. We were so exhausted during our BMT days that we jus wanna chill it out peacefully under the sun.

Unfortunately, I developed a super high fever on the 1st day of my block leave. My temperature was above 39 deg and it didn subside for many days. While lying on the bed, i could feel myself burning my pillow. I was feeling both goggy and very cold. I cursed and swear that i have wasted my 1 week block leave. My mum has also cancelled her trip to china becos of me (wasting a couple of thousand dollars). Everything was SUCH A WASTE.

And history is repeating now, although not entirely the same case but something similar. Aiz.

Feeling touched

I may not be anti-bgr, but friends who are close to me know that i am usually not very supportive of bgr. Many a times, i have friends sharing with me their bgr problems. I walked with them and could see the amt of sorrows and anguish they have to go through. I witnessed how miserable they are when the r/s turned sour. Nevertheless, i am usually unmoved and untouched.

Today, this guy really touched me - for his love for his lost gf. The ironic fact is that a few of us have been trying to talk him out of trying to reconcile with his ex gf. We feel that the r/s is impossible, and they should stop wasting each other's time. Moreover, the ex-gf has recently found himself a bf, and she is really much more happier and cheerful - just like how she was before she was attached to him. The 2 of them were just now meant for each other, despite the amt of effort and sacrifices both parties have made.

As an egocentric person, this friend has nv bothered to lower his head and admit his own mistakes. However, he told me today that he realised how wrong he has been in the r/s, how bad he has treated his ex-gf, and how much he has missed her. He used to despise her in several aspects and even looked down on her. Now, she felt she has lost the best gf he could ever get, despite spending the past couple of yrs after their break up in search of new gals.

Is everything too late? I duno actually.

I suggested 2 options for him - either he woos her back and treats her very nice, or he let go and move on with life. He chose the former. I was really at lost whether to support him or not. Will i help to raise false hopes in him if i were to give him my support? What if the gal rejects him? Will he be more sad and disappointed? And so wat if they managed to patch up? Will i be helping them to dig a deeper pit? Will it bring more miseries to the gal if history were to repeat?

But as friends, i believe in supporting one another. I am giving him my support. I wish him all the best.

Kici again

This afternoon I drove to NTU to look for kici. I think he has become more scrawny than ever, just like zeathereal. Must the presidents of buddhist societies be of a particular shape (or weight)? But nevertheless, he looks more cheerful than anyone. The power of meditation retreat i supposed. Sadhu!

Last evening I went skating again. I skated all the way to Safra and back, which is about more than 20km. And i came back to find that one of my screws has came off. I tried to service my wheels by taking them off to clean the bearings. I ended up deforming one of the screw head and i wonder if the screw can still be taken out or not. I also broke both my allen keys while tightening the screws.... I think my skates overall is half dead... diezz.. Now i feel so uneasy abt my skates conditions. I can only blame on my lousy skills and wrong skating techniques. The wheels will be gone soon! But the frame (which is the most expensive part) is still as solid.

To ae2004, do u know how to chant Ratana sutta? I love to play the buddhist chants aloud at home and also while i am driving. The latest stunt i did was to play the chantings on my nokia6230 as i skate along the dark but peaceful ECP. I think this is also a great way to share the chantings with all the sentient beings - whom i think will rarely get the chance to listen to the chants if they were to choose to linger only around ECP.

Are all gone...

This is a picture taken at Tuas South, where all the heavy industries are located at. This pic somehow explains how i feel abt my working life. In the midst of the busy and hectic life as depicted by the factories/industries, I yearn to reach out for the peaceful sea and sky.

I was chatting with a friend on msn and felt pretty down after the conversation. I decided to head down to ECP despite the fact that its already near 10pm. I didn know whether I wanna jog or skate. I jus know I wanna escape.

As i relaxingly cruise down the peaceful and quiet tracks by the east coast beach, the breeze softly brush against my face as if with extreme gentle care. Breathing in the invigorating air gave me a refreshing mind for some self reflections. And I sadly realised tat there's still something that I thought i have already let go, but i didnt. No doubt the impact has been reduced significantly as the time passes, but the wound inflicted does not get to heal completely. It reminds me of my own 'cut' intestines, which suffers exactly the same fate - the wound remains sticky till today even though the operation was done 8 yrs ago.

Along the way, I skated past many BBQ pits. There were pits that were full of life and vibrance by grps of youngsters, happily playing games and filling up the environment with their claps and laughters. There were also pits that were left with nobody except for left over foods, used cups and plates + bags of rubbish. These BBQ pits were in complete contrasting state. It gives a v good reflection on our life. What awaits after all the fun were heaps of rubbish to be cleared up.

We have joy, we have fun, we have seasons in the sun .. but the moon, and the star, like the seasons are all gone.....

Chalet & Pre-Xmas

The chalet has ended too fast. Although we do meet up every now and then, it has been for yrs (since 2003) since we have our last chalet. The feeling was of cos great and exciting. The number of beds and room space was just nice for the 10 of us at Aloha Loyang.

Xmas gift exchange is something we cannot do without, but we decided to do something different this yr. Instead of buying just one general gift for random gift exchange, we bought a 2nd gift to another specific person who was determined by the lots we drew last Xmas. And we have this entire 1 yr to hunt for the gift which we think suit our 'receiver' best. In all, each person will be receiving 2 gifts.

The person that was supposed to buy me a present is Sihui. I must say she has really made a very good choice in buying me a U2 short sleeve polo tee. All along i have been wearing U2 apparels and not only does the size fits me, I love the colour very much too. This simple gift exchange has further bonded all of us up and its also a good test to show how much we understand one another.

And the annual xmas gathering always end up with everyone of us sharing our past yr reflections + new yr resolutions. Although its not uncommon for us to have gatherings, i really feel very bonded to this grp of frens during this chalet. I m glad we r still close together after this long 5 yrs. Its buddhism that has brought us together.

I have promised refreshed.pearl that I will write something in my blog last evening but I came home too late. I spent my last evening skating followed by jogging at ECP with the EVC friends. This afternoon I will be heading for the BS-gang chalet and thus, I guess I wudnt get a chance to blog today either. So I am doing it now at my workplace, kakaka.

Last month we had a mini BS gathering at CK's house and we da-bao dinner from a nearby coffeeshop tze-char stall. Ck was telling us that ever since he shifted in 10yrs ago, he has seen multiple changes in the ownership of this stall. We were wondering why wud there be ppl still willing to take over the stall each time the prev owner failed. Were they thinking that 'this time' it will be different and they will outshine all the predecessor?

This reminds me of something else, though not exactly a relevant comparison but interesting to ponder abt. Recently a pair of BS couple friends told me they have broken up. Yesterday, another pair told me their r/s is now at the rocks. Both pairs were v loving couples, but problems surfaced eventually and I thought these problems were quite typical in a r/s. The gal feels that the guy is not showing enough attention to her, while the guy feels strained and tired over her demads. No more butterflies in the stomach, no more magical moments - the chemistry is lost.

Recently I get to know a lady friend who has separated from her estranged husband and filing a divorce soon. She has been terribly hurt by her past r/s, but is now in love with another guy. Unfortunately, this new guy has failed to meet up to her expectations in certain aspects and she was hurt once again. This reminds me of the coffeeshop stall near CK's house. Why do ppl still wanna engage in something knowing that the end product will be sufferings eventually? Life after life we have been repeating the same thing and given the same sufferings. Perhaps they are thinking that their r/s will be an 'exceptional' and outstanding one, different from the past ones and better than the rest?

Sorry if I have offended anyone… cos wat I say may not be definitely right. But tats how I feel…

This evening, I went to Mustafa to meet up with an EVC guy to pass him 2 peugeot logos i bought from IMM. This guy (lets call him Mr.M) is in his 40s, always dressed in those typical ah-pek striped polo tee + a pair of shorts/berms. He smokes heavily and told us he needs to drive his van to the construction sites at times. Nobody knows wat job he is having.

A few of us asked him for his occupation but he always gave different answers ranging from helping out with family business to doing sales . Today, he finally admitted to me that he is a medical doctor. He has chosen not to disclose his identity for fear of unnecc judgement and not able to blend in easily with the EVC ppl.

Dr M has been working in the US, Bombay, Australia and even once a sailing medical doctor on Star Cruise. He laughed when i told him how stressful my job is - cos he is handling life-threatening cases in hosptial almost everyday which are much more stressful. He also shared with me his views on what the correct working attitude shld be - knowing from A to Z of your job. He has asked me to kill the thoughts of quitting my job and told me tat i need to stay in a single job for at least 2 years (same as wat my HRM tutor told us) before moving on to the next job.

Dr M also told me that i shld not be bothered too much with my pay as working in a big firm + low pay is still better off than working in a small unknown firm + high pay. The transferable and 'carrier' value is not there for the latter, and the additional amt of pay doesn make up to it.

Lastly, he shared about the attitude in life - A person who follows the rules strictly may be a good man, but it doesn make him a better man if without true understanding of his own actions. Always strive to be a better man, not just a good man.

Oh yes, did i mention he is from myammar and a practising buddhist? Hehe. .talk abt karmic link

I have just returned from NUSBS Dharma Camp 2005 Finale Night. This must be the camp that I have participated least in over the past 6 yrs, attending only the finale night + 20 min on Sunday. A few noticeable differences were observed in this Camp:

1) No other STIBS frens and very few seniors were seen at the finale night (NTUBS used to come in an entire MC and snrs came in a huge grp)
2) Participants were much more fun-loving, active and sporting (I think participants in the past were more passive and shy)
3) Candle possession held before the climax (The skits and play has become the finale of the camp??)
4) Having a venerable (Ven Chun Hui) supporting the entire camp (WOW, so fortunate!)

NUSBS has also gotten itself a very nice and sweet treasurer who rushed out with some goodies for the snrs when she saw us leaving the temple. I personally appreciate and emphasize a lot on this little respect given to the snrs. We must understand and realise the fact that without the snrs' efforts, there wudnt exist a strong and established NUSBS for us today.

NUSBS seems to often have this trend of having some 'promising' members joining the society too late. I remembered there was this lady who only joined the FOC only after her final sem in NUS. She thought she shld hav joined BS a few yrs earlier, but unfortunately, she has to start searching for jobs and couldnt continue to join in the campus fun after the FOC. Another guy joined only in yr4, wanted to learn more abt buddhism and expressed interest in joining our big family, but unfortunately found himself too busy with his FYP. Eventually, he graduated just like that... wat a waste. There were a few more cases when some active and promising members jus suddenly 'disappear'....

Okie late in night, i also duno wat i am rambling abt, perhaps it doesn make sense to the readers at all, paiseh. Time to zzz

It hurts

I went skating just now at ECP and had 3 great falls - and i meant great falls with my bums slamming hard onto the ground.. Ouch!

The first fall was due to a long twig getting rolled into my wheels. My left foot continued its motion while my right foot was stuck, this causing the fall. The 2nd fall was due to this stupid huge seed found on the ground. Suay suay i skated over it at a v fast speed and was thrown to the side of the road. The 3rd fall was due to a damm twig again, something like the first accident. I had no open wounds, all thanks to my wrist guard which helped me in breaking the falls and hence, reducing the falling impacts.

My work today sent me to an emotional roller coaster ride again. I think my life can be shorten by 10 yrs working in this High Pressure company. I dun wanna mention anything more abt it.

Last evening after i installed my car alarm system, i rushed down to Yishun Collumbarium to pay my respect to my late OC. The place is opened until 7pm and i was there at 6plus. Besides paying respect to my late OC, his death anniv used to be a mass gathering day for everyone from the army. The 1st and 2nd anniversary were very crowded with my fellow army mates. There were less and less turn outs for the subsequent yrs. And it was reduced to only 2 of us yday. Talk abt 'bo sim' in human kind....

Spending Alarmingly

Finally, I have successfully installed the car alarm system on my Partner. After a failed attempt yday which wasted my 3hrs + $50, I braved for a 2nd attempt and sent it to another workshop (owned by an EVC member) and getting along a common friend to help.

The original van did come with a remote control key and has a central lock system. However, it does not have a security alarm. Moreover, there is this 'Immobilzer' which is supposed to be an enhanced security feature (meaning the every set of van keys comes with a unique microchip) which allows only the original keys to start the engine. However, this design has given us van owners a great headache as we are unable to duplicate our own set of keys as these duplicated keys are useless without the original microchips.

Altogether, I was charged $180 for the installation (compared to the $85 yday). It comes with 2 remote controls + a motion sensor (supposedly to be better as they r made in Singapore instead of China). This is the flipside of european vans. The electrical wiring system is super complicated that most outside workshops do not have the expertise to do it. Even if they do, they might not entertain u for tat small amt of money earned. Its not worth their manpower. Fortunately this EVC friend (graduated from poly) is very well versed in electrical circuits and designs tat he managed to overcome the hurdles faced by the technicians yday. And an electrical engineer like me know nuts abt these wiring systems (wat a shame).

I was so busy this weekend that i only managed to spare a 20 min time slot at the Dharma Camp. But i feel so proud and happy for my fellow snrs, seeing them helping out in various ways in the camp. I saw Ms Foo as the photographer and Kenny (lam) helping out in the logistic. I also learnt that Zhihao and Puwen came down to give talks on diff traditions of buddhism. Great. I feel there s nothing wrong with snrs joining the society's activities - no such thing as too old or out-of-place as long as we have our own roles and areas to help out. Unless we jus wanna go there to have fun and hee haa our time, then perhaps something is terribly wrong.

I vividly see that BS is no longer one of my top priorities in life, as I have moved on with other social grps and activities.

Om Black Day

When i was in the army, I heard of this Armour Black Day. It was said that for many years on this very same day, many cases of very bad accidents have happened. There was this soldier whose head was chopped off by a swinging turret. There was also another soldier whos body got chopped off into half at the waist when the tank overturned at a slope. Hence, all trainings and exercises were cut during this particular day - i think its some time during this period.

Writing this, i suddenly recalled how my OC was killed during the training. And i just realised his death anniv is today (and i have forgotten about it!). Every yr, I would make arrangement with all my fellow specialists and tie down with my OC's family member to pay our respect at his grave. Sigh.. this yr i actually forgot abt it. I 'll see if i can make a trip down tmr to offer my respect.

And today (or rather yday) seemed to be a black day for me. Early in the morning, I excitedly went to a car accessory shop to have my car alarm installed. I got this v cheap lobang (abt half the price from other shops) and was told to 'come back and collect' after 1hr. Unfortunately, my wait stretched till 3hrs ++ and finally the technician gave up on my ride. He said tat Peugeot is too 'complex' and difficult to install. I drove off feeling v disappointed. What a waste of my time!

And i went home, I found out my $50 note which i kept in my pocket was gone. OUCH! I have been trying to save here and there so much.. switching off aircon when driving, waking up early to siam erp, asking for discount on this and that, and now a $50 note is jus gone like that! V heart pain manz... :(

Fortunately the day ended better after i went for my skating at ECP. Although I still cannot do funny stunts and also cant brake effectively, I found myself gaining more stability as i skate. Its shiok to blade at nite listening to the Metta Chant and Heart Sutra. Try it!

Family Feuds

I was feeling really perturbed last nite. I had a conversation with a friend over msn and it really disturbed me emotionally.

I have known this friend for a few years (lets call her L, but not Lena!). Recently by chance, I found out that her dad is actually the nephew of my aunt's husband. My aunt (my mum's sister) and her husband are living in China. Last evening, I decided to 'acknowledge' her by telling her how her dad and my mum are related. Excitedly, she went to ask her her dad abt it and came back with the f0llowing replies:

L: My dad told me that she is a very notorious woman in the village. She used to ill-treat my dad and his sis.

Me: (feeling puzzled) Erm... you mean who?

L: Your aunt lor!

Me: (feeling upset) Oh... i din know my aunt is such a bad woman...

L: Yeah! But at least she has a v good nephew.

Me: (feeling more disturbed + disgusted) Well, our parents must be good in our eyes right? I feel its jus not right to criticise our elders, isnt it?

Blah blah blah blah blah.........................

I actually know a lot more on her dad and family background, but i didn wanna say them out as its none of my business. I also need to respect the fact that he is my friend's dad, although she didnt show the same respect for me by tactlessly blurting out how bad my aunt is. I am not siding my aunt too as i wasnt around to witness and so i cant comment. But i am jus very shocked and disappointed by my friend's tactlessness and obvious bias towards her own dad. If i were to behave like her, I may say something like this:

'Hey, i know your 3 storey house is actually a rented out, as ur dad has declared bankruptcy a few yrs ago due to a failed business. Your family has been struggling hard to maintain the image as if u are still as rich as before, but actually we all know ur parents r jus putting up a show for everyone to see. A lot of relatives also know ur dad like to make empty promises leh.... very shameful u know?"

Of cos i din say the above out to her. It will be too hurting for her to swallow the truth. But well, I jus wanna vent my frustrations here. The fortunate thing is that my blog is only limited to my small grp of friends and i believe will nv reach her. Morever, no name has been mentioned. And frens, i respect tat u wun go asking around and if u really wanna k now more, pls ask me directly. In the end, i gave my final reply to her:

Me: Perhaps to your dad my aunt was a v notorious and bad lady, but i am sure in her children's eyes, she is a v wonderful and good mother, jus like how u see your own dad.

Fresh Air & Farewell

I have tried many kinds of air fresheners for my partner but none of them is pleasing enough for me. I have always wanted to buy an air revitalisor but its too ex. Finally, I saw a special offer at BIG today and bought it without much hesitation. My colleague spared me a few drops of his essential oil and viola! My Partner is now feeling so fresh and clean! The difference is significance.

The unfortunate fact is that i always thought i have a few bottles of essential oils at home. However out of the 3 bottles of essential oil, 2 of them are actually massage oil ( a mixture of essential oil + carrier oil) and the 3rd bottle is for heating therapy. I am not sure if they can be used for my air revitalisor too, so anyone out there who have knowledge on this, can you pls advise me? Thx!

Yes, this is the NTU gal who has left us today. Surprisingly, I was feeling a tinge of sadness in me - something which i didnt quite expect myself to have. But dun be mistakened, i am not carrying a torch for her. Its probably due to the fact that i am too used to this xiaomeimei's presence in the office as well as having her as my lunch kaki for the past 5mths.

As a parting gift, I volunteered to help her walk round the office and take photos individually with the different colleagues, and uploaded them onto the web. She was v touched, and I promise to meet her for lunch at NTU when sch reopens. Starting from tmr, her desk will be empty, and I wonder how I will feel whenever i walk past it - probably until someone else come and take over it.

Farewell

We have a farewell buffet lunch at the ex-Concorde Hotel this afternoon - An IA student + a colleague are leaving us.

The above pic shows the NTU gal making a thankful and farewell speech to us. She has been with us for the past 5 mths and i really feel a bit sad to see her leave us. She has been lunching with us almost everyday. I promise to visit her at NTU for lunch whenever possible. Anyway, she was from NTUBS - started from a newbie to a sleepy member to a non-member.

NUSBS Dharma camp is around the corner and some jnrs have been smsing me for help. Glad that I can play a small part in supporting the camp. As spoken to shocked-pearl, the 1st bs camp is always the most fun and memorable for everyone. Yeah, FOC2000 is the most unforgettable and interesting camp i ever had in my student life. Unfortunately, there are always members in BS who do not get the chance of joining the camp as participants, but got robbed in directly as organisers. They have really missed out quite a lot, cos the feeling of being a carefree participant/newbie is definitely different from being an organiser/helper.

Went jogging at NUS after work. Jogging helps to relieve stress built up at work. According to Jimbean, our timing was still kept around 12min plus, phew. I wud have expected myself to drop back to 14min cos i have been slacking ever since i passed my IPPT a few mths ago. IPPT is good... it helps to discipline us in maintaining on physique.

Quite sad i didnt manage to buy insurance coverage smoothly due to my health problem. But my health problem is not recognised by the MO and medical board. What an irony!

Aging

I am now convinced that I am no longer a young man but an 'uncle'. Too much effects from my msn nick 'OM' which means uncle in malay.

A 23 yr old lady from EVC was asking for my age. I let her guess, and she guessed 28!

Another 18 yr old gal from Sgskate asked the same qn. I let her guess, and she guessed i am in my early 30s!

Next time i go out with riki, will they think he is my son?

The ppl from sgskate are skating everyday without fail. Every evening, i will be able to find familiar faces gathering at the YYH (our HQ) ready for skates. They even have sessions for christmas eve and new year eve planned out for skatings.... gosh.

I brought my skates home last evening instead of leaving them in my van so that I could air and sun them. My mum woke up this morning and thought they belong to my sis-in-law, as she found the pair of skates very small. Its indeed true that i have very very small feet. I worse size 255 for army boots, which is abt US size 7.5 and normal shoe size 38. Having such small feet, no wonder i run so slowly.. .sighz.

I guess no matter how diff i always declare myself to be, i am still v much like the typical guy who is willing to spend so much time and momey on his ride/car. However, my 'want' list is so long for my van that i have to replan and seek alternatives on certain items:

1a) Give up installing car leather seats ($450)
1b) Bought car seat covers instead (<$100)
2a) Give up buying FM transimtter ($49-79)
2b) Listen to more FM and CDs instead (free?)
3a) Give up installing interior cushionings for the rear of my van ($350)
3b) DIY on rooftop cushionings ($25) & bear with the remaining exposed metal parts


Also to cultivate new but feasible practices which can further reduce cost significantly:

3) Switch off aircon to save fuel
4) Wake up earlier to save on ERP costs (before 8am is 50cents, after 8am is $2)

The next thing on my 'want' list is to install a car alarm system. So far, Partner has only the central locking remote control sys, with no alarm. Besides for security reasons, the alarm system will also help me to detect my van easily at multi-storey carparks (something which i need quite badly). Its gonna cost me a couple of hundred bucks.

Well. . tats life...

Interior Bleu (revised)

Ever since I bought my Partner 1.5yrs ago, i have nv given him as much attention as now. In fact, it has also nv appeared as 'chio' to me before, not only after the efforts put in to touch up on both the internal and external beauty. After some struggle, finally decided to part with my money and pain my heart to buy the pair of blue seat covers.

After some comparisons, i realise that this v big local indian-opened megamart which opens 24hrs is actually not selling things as 'cheaply' as most ppl have perceived it to be. I duno why most ppl wud associate this megamart as a v reasonable and economical store. In fact, the car seat cover i bought today cost $11++ more in this megamart than the store i bought at Veerasamy Road.

I have just returned from blading at East Coast Park once again, with the EVC + Sgskate gang. I posted in the sgskate forum why I chose to buy a van:

1) Its abt 20K cheaper than a medium sized-car -> the most primary reason
2) It runs on diesel -> cost saving
3) Its big and can carry bulky stuffs which a normal car cant --> 1.9 litres somemore...
4) Its only for my personal use --> so i am fine with 2-seater
5) I love the sliding sidedoors --> I simply love them

Oh well, I have been sleeping late every night. Oh no.....

Jimbean was asking me whats the definition of 'meterosexual'. I am sorry I do not have the standard definition to provide, and moreover, this is a relatively 'new' word which only came out probably a decade ago. However, its definitely not equivalent to 'homosexual', so dun worry, haha.

Generally, I think meterosexual refers to a guy/man who is very particular with his outlooks, and would spend time shopping for nice clothings, visiting hair saloons and groom himself nicely. However, my friend further extended her definition to include the 'character' of a guy. She feels that a meterosexual guy is one who is sensitive, caring, 'have-feelings', something very much like the more commonly used term - SNAG. Anyway, its not my personal goal to be a meterosexual or SNAG, haha.

But talking abt sensitivity, I did manage to sense something correctly abt my friends recently. At EVC, I correctly sensed that this guy is interested in this gal, although in front of everyone they have always declared as ' good friends'. In fact, i think most ppl wud have thought the gal is interested in the guy, and not the other way. Somehow, the gal was bewildered how i managed to guess it correctly, as she shared with me her difficulties abt not able to convince the guy she is not ready for him.

Next, its abt a new-born couple in NUSBS (hahaha). These 2 youngsters are really new to NUSBS. In fact, I hardly know them, but a few encounters with them during DC and BS activities gave me the feeling that there s something between them. And hey presto! It was jus a passing remark tat i made today to the guy, and he admitted to me that they have just been in love for 1 mth plus, hahaha.

I guess when u keep urself free from all these love webs and hassles, you become more sharp and observant in the things around you. Rubbish theory i have gotten here, but well.... At times, i still find myself quite vulnerable to fall into traps, but fortunately most of the time the surrounding conditions are either not complete or non favourable, and i am spared from further ordeals. Shld put in more effort to train my mind power.